Those Who Look Hungry Never Get Fed
This is true with employers , credit card companies, its true with loans, its true in sales, and most relevant to you , it’s true with the opposite sex. Desperation repels women, and people like shit on a shoe. I know, I know, this doesn’t jive with what you were taught at school. You were taught that being a good little boy, showing vulnerability, crying like a little bitch and being “in touch with your feminine side* (I’m vomiting typing this) was the key to getting women.
That, my friend, is a big load of dookie. The real truth is that in every aspect of life, people who look desperate – for a sale, for a job, for a woman, for a deal end up repelling people. Think about it. Have you ever met a desperate salesperson who approached you and nervously asked for the sale? How did they come off? Weak. Like they were going to go hungry and broke if you said no. Did you buy from them?
God I hope not. I can tell you that I immediately shut down any salesman who gives off this vibe. Human nature is funny in a way. You would think people would be more willing to help someone out who was more desperate and in need. IN reality people are attracted to abundance and repelled from scarcity.
The Less You Need it The More Likely You’ll Get
Is that ironic or what? The less you actually need something the more likely people are to give it to you. Act like you need an opportunity? You can be sure of one thing, they’ll smell your desperation a mile away and shut you down before you even finish your proposal. When I first read this saying it made so much sense! It’s just like credit card companies and lenders. Those who get the biggest loans and credit balances are those who need it the least! The person who’s desperate, in debt and living on a prayer is going to be DENIED on his credit card application request.
The guy with the Black VIP credit card was approved for it because he doesn’t need it. He makes six figures and is rolling in the dough. The credit card companies know that and decide that he is worthy – because he doesn’t it need. Well, I hate it to break it to you guys but women work the same way.
The Matthew Principle
The Matthew Principle/Effect refers to one of the coldest Bible passages ever written down – one that hardly seems “fair”.
For to every one who has will more be given, and he will have abundance; but from him who has not, even what he has will be taken away.I tell you, that to every one who has will more be given; but from him who has not, even what he has will be taken away.
How can you profit from this wisdom? Simple: Learn How to Be Indifferent.
Outcome Independence is another thing that will help you immensely in the dating game. In plain English, Outcome Independence = NOT GIVING A FUCK. When you can truly not GIVE A FUCK and have a “Take it Or Leave It Attitude” of calm, steady indifference, people will be more likely to give you what you want and deserve.
Remember: “Those who look hungry, don’t get fed.”
Don’t look hungry. Eat at home. The full belly gets the most food.