Never Complain Never Explain
Complaining and Explaining accomplish nothing and make you look weak and powerless. A man is a human doing. An object in motion stays in motion. A man who values his time, respects himself and is not weak will refuse to COMPLAIN or EXPLAIN. If he has developed these unfortunate negative vices, he will do whatever it takes to reduce and eliminate these weak, non-productive habits. Life is hard enough as it is. Their is no need to whine. Victims whine, and you can’t call yourself a man if you see yourself as a victim. A man takes action when he finds himself in a non satisfying situation.
Don’t like where you are in life or the way things are?
GET OFF YOUR ASS and do something to fix it.
The cold hard truth is society doesn’t give a shit about men. It never has and it never will. Want to feel sorry for yourself and mope around? Join the ranks of crybabies on the internet and broke defeated homeless men on the street.
Men Have a Burden of Performance
Men have always been judged based off of their performance relative to other men. Whether it was hunting woolly mammoths, going to war or working a 9-5 job. Men have always been judged by WHAT THEY ARE and WHAT THEY HAVE.Once you take care of maximizing and maintaining your looks – the next logical step is to maximize your financial and social performance. Women cannot control who and what they are attracted to.
For better or worse women are attracted to good looking men with high social status and resources. That isn’t going to change. It is part of our biological hard-wiring that goes back millions of years. It doesn’t care about your individuality or personality. It isn’t fair and it isn’t pretty.
It is WHAT it is.
This is how it has been and this is how it will always be. It can be frustrating to always have an expectation and a burden of success to be placed upon you. Too bad. You aren’t going to change women and you aren’t going to change society. So what do I do you ask?
You work on yourself. HARD. You figure out what actions and plans you can make to improve your lot in life.
Complaining only wastes valuable time that you could be using to address or correct the situation you find yourself whining about. Nobody cares buddy. I hate to make this obvious but society only cares when women and children complain. When a man complains and whines, people just look on with disgust and contempt for the weak man. This is an unwritten social contract that you are expected to just “GET” and understand without having to be “TOLD”.
Explaining is also weak and feminine. When you offer up explanations to someone, you immediately putting yourself on the defensive and fighting an uphill battle. For a month, offer NO explanations to your actions. Simply reply to close-ended questions with a YES or NO. You aren’t a dog. You don’t need to justify or explain yourself to anyone. The one exception to this rule is your job. If you work a 9-5, then you need to be reasonable with your boss and coworkers. Outside of work is a different story.
With words, less is often more. Replying to questions with a simple YES or NO makes you look strong and decisive. Your a man, aren’t y0u? Then you don’t need to justify yourself to anybody. Period. If they don’t like it, they can go POUND SAND.
Memorize this saying and implement it into your daily life until it becomes second nature.
NEVER COMPLAIN , NEVER EXPLAIN
Complaining and explaining is what weak, subservient, spineless men do. Do you want to be known as a weak male with no spine who bends to the whim of other? Or do you want to be known as an asshole who is to be treated with respect and admiration. I’d rather be feared then loved. This doesn’t me you want to end up a violent criminal thug with a felony record. This means you have to have the balls, conviction and self respect to stand up with yourself and always put yourself first.
Repeat this mantra for the next 30 days and make sure and apply the information. Over the next month you’ll find yourself respect and self-worth soaring. No human being is worth losing your self-respect or pride for. You don’t owe anybody shit. Most people’s parents raised them to be way too nice, weak and conflict averse. It’s a lot better to not take peoples disrespect, ignore their stupid disrespectful questions and check them when necessary.
What you don’t say can be a whole lot more powerful then what you say. The less you say , the better. Give people the gift of one word answers without giving into the need to explain or justify your actions. From now on, you only need to justify your actions to yourself. Nobody else. Life is a lot better when you genuinely stop giving a fuck about what other people think and want and focus on yourself. Trust me.