Modern Man Dating
(The Game is Rigged – So Stack the Odds in Your Favor)
This post is dedicated to the men who keep complaining about the current state of affairs in the West.
Specifically regarding dating and casual sex.
Dating has become more competitive and ruthless for men then ever because of the internet and social media.
They complain about women, about the world, about feminism, about the economy, about the way things are versus how they used to be.
But they never look to themselves as both the cause of and the solution to all of their problems.
Being a man is about taking action and making things happen – not about complaining and whining.
A masculine macho man doesn’t waste his precious time complaining about problems.
Instead he keeps to himself and his close master-mind group and focuses on SOLUTIONS, not problems.
Yes, the dating game is rigged.
Yes, the top men get their pick of the litter when it comes to young, feminine, sexy, attractive women.
That’s how it’s been since time immemorial, and that is how it will always be.
How likely is it that complaining about the world, women and the current state of affairs will change anything?
Not likely at all.
Their is no need to change the world.
We merely need to change ourselves and stack the odds in our favor.
1) How to Stack the Odds in Your Favor:
Become an exceptional man and you won’t have to bitch about the current state of dating and your sexual frustrations.
Only the losers of the game think the game isn’t fair.
The winners stay quiet and enjoy the rewards.
Many men would rather blame women for them being mediocre rather then placing the full responsibility and blame where it truly lies.
Nobody was put on this Earth to meet your needs.
When you are a baby you are helpless. Your parents meet all your needs, since you cannot.
When you are a boy your parents are your leaders. You obey their commands without question.
Every man is a male but not every male is a man.
To become a man is to cease complaining and looking to others and accept full and total responsibility for your life and circumstances.
Post about quitting bitching about the dating market in the west and focusing on improving as much impossible in all facets of life.
(Career, Body, Cosmetic Surgery, ETC)
Women wear high heels, pounds of make up, padded bras, concealer and slimming clothes.
You don’t need to tell anyone about it, but getting cosmetic surgery will be one of the best things you can do.
An investment in yourself is the best investment you can make. Whether it’s in your education or in enhancing your looks.
It can be hard to stop blaming others and women for your dating woes and to give yourself some tough love.
Sooner or later you’ve got to be realistic though – being delusional only hurts yourself.
2) Be Brutally Honest With Yourself:
I find if you are brutally honest with yourself you can figure out if you’ve “made it” or if you’ve still got work to do.
Would you want to date you? Would you want to be with you?
If the answer to that question is no, then how can you expect a woman to want to be with you?
If you were a woman, would you date a broke bum who lived with his mum and took the bus to his fast-food job everyday?
Then don’t expect a good-looking women with options to settle for you.
The reality is in this Western world woman are the buyers and men are the sellers.
Women are spoiled for choice.
Why should they choose you?
In the days of social media, dating apps and the internet being mediocre isn’t going to cut it.
This globalized world is more ruthless then ever.
It’s a dog eat dog world and it’s winner take all.
One man is going to win and another is going to lose.
One man is going to get laid and the other will go home alone.
That’s just how the world works.
You’ve got to buy a ticket to have a chance at winning.
It’s cuck or be cucked, it’s as simple as that.
You are either the participant indulging in the ultimate biological function or a passive observer, seething with jealously and anger.
Who you want to be is up to you.
My simple call to action is this:
Develop every aspect of yourself to the fullest.
Become the best version of yourself.
I encourage you to date while you work on yourself – at a minimum though, have a place you can bring a girl to and have a car.
3) The House Always Wins – So BECOME THE HOUSE
Just like in Vegas – the HOUSE ALWAYS WINS.
In modern dating, women are the house by DEFAULT.
Men are the gambling addicts.
The trick then – is to BECOME IN DEMAND.
The house never worries about small losses (like women leaving) because they know THERE IS A SUCKER BORN EVERY MINUTE.
Well, I’ve got news for you.
Their are 3.5 billion women on this planet.
Become the best version of yourself – physically, mentally, financially and you’ll be the house.
It’s much easier to have an IDGAF (I don’t give a FUCK) attitude when you have an abundance of financial wealth and women chasing you.
Life is a lot better when you are the house.
The house always wins and stacks the odds in his favor.
Be as good looking as you can be, be as fit as you can be, be as charismatic, be as financially successful as you can be.
That is the great challenge which every ambitious man undertakes at some point in his life.
School sets people up for failure because it teaches people to be passive, go-along to get along people pleasers.
That weak spineless mentality can’t keep up against someone who realizes the innate cold truth of life.
In the caveman day’s when tribes would fight the weaker tribes males would be executed.
The female’s of the losing tribe would become the property of the victors.
In many ways, things are the same.
The winners in life are constantly out there, like barbarians at the gate.
They threaten to take the losers and the mediocre man’s women – or they already have.
Their is no worse feeling in the world then losing your girl to another, richer man.
It’s extremely emasculating.
In the days before law and order and peace and quiet it would lead to one man dying, while the other man rode off into the sunset with his lady.
Nowadays though, the low value man is simply expected to tolerate being fucked over.
After all, we all abide by a social construct this.
The warrior man realizes this and trades his blade for a pen.
With his pen he plots and schemes and creates a plan of action.
With a plan of action and ruthless ambition he figures out a way to stand out and above the rest of the pack.
Other men are your competition.
Never forget this.
Nature doesn’t give a fuck about your morals, or going along to get along.
Yes, the game is rigged for the top men who excel at it.
That isn’t going to change.
Stop complaining, stop bitching and do whatever it takes to stack the odds in your favor.
Changing yourself is a lot easier then trying to ask the world to change.
RECOMMENDED READING MATERIAL:
If you are a modern man who is struggling on the dating market then both of these books/audio books will help you become a more assertive, competent man.
Dating is a skill , and – ANY SKILL CAN BE MASTERED.