Why Not You?
You’re at the club. An innocent, young looking woman stares deeply into your eyes and smiles. Are you going to man up and approach? Or are you going to keep sitting in the corner with your drink in your hand and your balls in your purse?
Or are you going to gather the strength to approach her like a fucking man? Or are you going to spend another night alone, jerking off at home after you fail at the club. I’ve got some news for you buddy. That girl isn’t as innocent as she looks. She’s been getting her back blown out since she was in Middle School. Some man is going to fuck her brains out and exchange hot orgasms with her. Why not you?
Haven’t you suffered enough already? Haven’t you had enough frustration and regret? Haven’t you asked yourself “What If” and “If Only” after you chickened out enough? Haven’t you talked yourself out of enough pussy. life is short my friend. I know when you were 18 it felt like you had your whole life ahead of you and you were going to be young forever. That’s a load of bullshit. I remember being 18 too. Here I am a decade later and I find myself scratching my head. Wondering where my youth went. I wasn’t even paying attention and my youth flew by. Luckily I’ve still got time in my prime. but in hindsight I definitely wish I spent less time on instant gratification and more time on productive habits.
At the end of the day, she came to the club to get her pussy stroked by an attractive man. What makes those other men deserve it more then you? Nothing. What do you have to lose? You started with nothing and worst case scenario you end up the same way. In a situation like this, you have EVERYTHING TO GAIN and NOTHING to LOSE.
Men Take Risks
Part of becoming a man is changing your mindset from being RISK-AVERSE (AVOIDING RISK) to becoming RISK-SEEKING. The biggest risk you can take in life is playing it safe. Most of the time the rejection that stops us from taking action is bigger in our heads then in reality. When you allow your fear, anxiety and worry to paralyze you into inaction, you lower your self-confidence. When you man up, grow a pair and decide to take a risk in spite of the possibility of rejection, your confidence skyrockets. The times in my life where I found the most confidence was when I DID what I truly wanted to instead of allowing my fear to control me.
“Life begins at the end of your comfort zone” – Neale Donald Walsch
Accept The Truth
Whether you want to believe it or not, whether you believe the girl your crushing on is not as innocent and angelic as you would like to believe. She’s not an angel or some princess you should put on a pedestal. She’s a human being with her own needs and flaws, wants and desires. At the end of the day, a straight women wants to be lying underneath an attractive man as he penetrates her body and makes love to her (or fucks the dog-shit out of her, depending on the girl and the night, ha ha)
Sexual desires are not wrong or immoral. They are normal and almost every human being has them. Including women. Haven’t you been spectating on the sidelines for long enough? Aren’t you tired of disgracing your ancestors? Your ancestors managed to continue your lineage for thousands of years. Don’t let it end with you because you were too lazy, weak or in your own head to be a man and take risks. Daylights burning and the time on the clock is running out. This is your one chance on life on this Earth. Why not make the most of it? Why not go for it?
One way or another, women are looking to get fucked by a strong, attractive, cool, edgy masculine man. Why not you? Why not man up and become the man you were destined to be. Why not make your ancestors (and parents proud.) Why not live a life you can be proud of? People will tell you that women don’t define you, that you don’t need anybody that you can just be a Lone Wolf. That’s good in theory. In reality the women you attract or fail to attract into your life act as a signal. They signal where you are in life and how much more work you need to do.
Are you a low quality man? Expect low quality, dusty women in your life. Or No women. If you want more attractive women, their are no shortcuts. You’re going to have to put in the work and discipline. It’s not going to happen overnight.
Will it be worth it? Absolutely.
It’s time to stop overthinking shit, making excuses and staying stuck in your own head. Its time to man up, grow a pair and BE A GODAMN MAN!
Put in the work FIRST AND MAKE IT HAPPEN!