Do Looks Matter In Dating?
Or is it al just about your personality, the numbers in your bank account and shared/mutual interests?
If you aren’t prepared to have your delusions and dreams about dating shattered and crushed then leave this page now. This is my only warning.
Society, Disney, TV and Movies and modern culture have sold men a huge lie. That lie is that looks don’t matter. Its the person on the inside that counts. Personality and being a good guy is what matters. Women don’t care about looks, being a good guy is what matters, right?
On the other hand, you have PUA scammers and many fraud snake oil salesman in the manosphere who will boldly lie to your face. They will give you random corny lines like “Just Hold Frame Bro” and “Just Be Confident”. Being confident only helps if a girl is attracted to you. In which case, you won’t need confidence in the first place as long as you aren’t completely clueless to social cues.
Ready for the nuclear bomb to drop?
LOOKS ARE THE MOST IMPORTANT MANDATORY FACTOR WHEN IT COMES TO BOTH DATING AND LONG TERM ATTRACTION.
Looks are what get you into the door/building. Other traits like personality, job, cash, career, cribs, car and attitude only come into play if and only if you PASS the looks test. Fail, and it doesn’t matter how great of a catch you think you are. The only thing that matters to the girl is whether she finds you hot or not.
I know society lied to you and told you that it’s men who are the shallow sex. That women don’t care about looks, that they just want security, safety and a best friend. The key is to look at what people actually do and not the virtue signaling they say. Talk is cheap. Words are just empty air. Actions are what count.
Before worrying about learning some bologna magical techniques or canned opening lines, worry about maxing out your physical appearance in every aspect possible. Developing an Instagram models physique or something approximating it will do more for your dating life then Buying, learning and memorizing $10,000 dollars of PUA scam content.
The Caste System in the Game:
Their is a caste system in the game. The most attractive men get the most attractive women and the biggest share of women. That’s just how it is. Don’t like it, take it up with the Big Man in the Sky. I didn’t design human biology or mating behavior. Im just giving you my honest observations and the truth as I’ve experienced it. Find the women that are choosing you. Stop harassing women who show little to no interest. It’s not fair to them, and it’s not fair to you to waste your time on somebody who sees you as nothing more then an annoyance.
Why do most DATING COACHES AND PUA’s LIE? = GREED
Why do they leave out this critical piece of information? Simple. Because they are frauds and scam artists plain and simple. Telling it like it is will put people off their product and hurt their bottom line. Most of these guys are in it for the money and lack integrity. Scammers downplay the importance of looks because it allows them to sell desperate men hope packaged in an instant gratification solution.
Unfortunately my friend, the real world doesn’t work like that. Men don’t want to be told that something they do not have total control over will determine their dating and mating life in success.
The good news is this:
Even though you can’t choose every aspect of how you are born, every man can get in shape and most men can become attractive. It simply requires dedication, consistency, discipline and the HEART to keep improving yourself. I’m a terrible liar. I don’t like deceiving people. I don’t want other men to suffer. Scammers will tell you its about your techniques, when in all actuality it is mostly about how you look and whether a woman finds you attractive.
My Honest Advice:
Max Out Your Looks FIRST
Before wasting your time on techniques, style, and leading with your wallet, max out your appearance. Do everything in your power to become the most attractive, ripped, lean, stylish version of yourself. ONLY AFTER doing this should you attempt to read up on techniques and game. It is critical to be BRUTALLY HONEST with yourself. What could you work on? What could you improve?
Ask yourself, are you as in shape as you could and should be? If the answer you come up with is “NO” then you need to determine how to fix that. I can help you. I can give you an individualized plan of action depending on who you are and what you look like. But the final responsibility falls on you. You need to make the necessary changes. You need to LOOKSMAXX. Plain and simple. Stop hating on women. Things aren’t going to change. The strongest, most successful men have always been those who ended up being selected by women. It isn’t going to change.
The sooner you stop trying to change the world and focus on changing yourself, the sooner you can get the results you want in your dating life.
Stop worrying about corny techniques and magic lines. Start worrying about how you look and come off to people. If you aren’t at 15% body fat or lower you have no business even talking to women. That’s the honest brutal truth. I’m not here to coddle you, hold your hand, pat your head and tell you everything is going to be OK. Im here to give you a cold hard truth dose of the truth and pull the veil that’s been covering your eyes.
I can tell you what you have to do, but you have to pull the trigger and execute to get the results you DESERVE with women. Life and youth are both short. Why waste any more of your precious valuable time and energy alone? Why not make the changes that will get you from where you ARE to where you WANT TO BE?
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