Just Be Yourself

Just Be Yourself (Is Terrible Advice) 1)The Five Types of People Who Say “Just Be Yourself” 2) Just Be Yourself = Feel Good Generic Advice 3) A Problem Written and Known is a Problem Half Solved (Awareness is Key) 4) What if you’re obese, ugly, antisocial, short, or deformed? 5)Insanity is Doing the Same Thing …

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Don’t ACT Busy, BE BUSY

Don’t Act Busy, BE BUSY! One frequently dispensed piece of advice that is given on dating and advice forums is to act busy. Don’t be too available. Don’t respond to texts too fast. Don’t hit someone up every day. Don’t act too eager or drop everything for women. That’s all well and good. You must …

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NOFAP Timeline Benefits

NOFAP Timeline Benefits 1).What is NoFap Anyways? NOFAP is an acronym that means NO “fapping”. Fapping is internet slang for masturbation, most commonly to hardcore pornographic content. Engaging in NOFAP means completely abstaining from viewing porn and masturbation. “Hardmode” NOFAP means abstaining from all sexual activity, including intercourse with a woman. NOFAP as a movement …

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Pareto Principle Dating

Pareto Principle Dating The Pareto Principle is also known as the 80 20 RULE. The 80 20 rule applies to various facets of life. The top 20% of music artists produce 80% of all popular music. The top 20% of salesman get 80% of all sales. Likewise, the top 20% of men in the dating …

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Success Doesn’t Happen Overnight

Success Doesn’t Happen Overnight Movies, Music, rap songs and society have conditioned people to think success happens over night. Nothing could be further from the TRUTH. SUCCESS DOESN’T HAPPEN OVERNIGHT. If you expect overnight success , you will only set yourself up for disappointment down the line. Unrealistic expectations lead to needing an immediate, specific …

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How to Live Frugally on One Income

How to Live Frugally on One Income This article will be on minimalism and being frugal. One thing I’ve come to realize at 28 years old is that minimalism is king. If you are dead set on becoming or building something, you need to be focused. You can’t be focused if you own so much …

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I Forgive But I Don’t Forget

I Forgive But I Don’t Forget It’s okay to forgive. But NEVER FORGET. Forgiveness is catharsis. Holding onto hate and resentment is like keeping bullets in your body after you survive a gun fight. Catharsis adj. – the process of releasing, and thereby providing relief from, strong or repressed emotions. What’s not OK, is to forget. Forgiving …

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Why Do People Give Up Easily

Why Do People Give Up Easily (Reality Not Meeting Lofty Expectations) People give up. They give up on their dreams. They give up on their projects. They give up on themselves. They put a little work in, and then quit when reality fails to conform. Conform to what? Their unrealistic expectations. See, society has conditioned …

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